Tuesday, February 06, 2007

Fear Not the Disabled

A Christianity Today editorial from Nov. 2005.

We all benefit when people with disabilities are valued in our churches.


Imagine walking down the street and hearing a child say to his mother: "Mom, why does he walk that way?" Or, "Why is she in that wheelchair?" Or, "Why does he have that cane?" People with disabilities don't have to imagine such questions. They hear them regularly—at least those who can hear.
But it's not the queries of curious youngsters that bother those facing physical or mental challenges. It's the indifference, discrimination, or outright hostility that often comes from adults. During the public debate over Terri Schiavo, one especially blunt blogger wrote that Michael Schiavo had been "chained to a drooling [excrement]-bag for 15 years."
Blinded by media-induced visions of health and rugged individualism and by films such as Million Dollar Baby, many people see disability as a fate worse than death. Joni Eareckson Tada, left paralyzed after a diving accident 38 years ago, knows such private attitudes inevitably impact public policy.
"People have a fundamental fear of disabilities," Tada tells CT. "That fear drives social policy."Jesus' Distressing Disguise
In the debate over human embryonic stem cells, Christians are right to defend the humanity and dignity of the embryo. But our well-reasoned words are unlikely to convince people who fear disease and incapacitation if we do not also demonstrate real pro-life compassion for a whole class already here—people with disabilities.
These neighbors are all around us. And we must not, like the Levite and the priest in Jesus' parable, pass by on the other side of the road. There are an estimated 50 million people with disabilities of all kinds in the United States, and 600 million worldwide. Each one, to borrow a phrase from the late Mother Teresa, is Jesus in the distressing disguise of the poor, the disabled and the outcast...





Are people with disabilities (especially developmentally disabled) vastly under represented in most Pro-Life Churches?

Are Christians Prejudiced?

Is the 'Pope's Nose' the back end of the Turkey?*

Unfortunately the answer is yes to all these questions.



*This is not a reference to our beloved Catholic Pope. It is an old joke my father used to tell us as he carved our Christmas Turkey during my childhood years. (If you feel offended, I apologize. Please feel free to make a disaparing remark about the nose of one or all of the evangelical popes who pontificate on their television programs each day of the week.)

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm probably going to get attacked for my comment... but that's never stopped me before.

As a person with a physical disability (I'm hearing impaired... basically deaf without my aids, and I have a voice that draws questions from others because of it's unusual nature), and a teacher of severely to mildly developmentally disabled students, I have to say that you can't put these people in the same category as someone who would die if taken off life support, like Mrs. Schiavo.

There is a difference between those who are born different, in all of God's splendor, and live with His grace. Some can learn more than others. We should help them out as much as possible (in all ways, including medically), as long as we're not trying to "make them better for our own sake." That can make them, in some cases, feel ashamed with how God made them.

But those who have had accidents, and should have died except for medical intervention... that's another story. I'm not saying we shouldn't have ERs, saving lives, or that miracles don't happen. But after that many years, with the only thing keeping a person alive is machine, it seems to me to be standing in the way of a reunion between a Child and the Lord.

I don't mean to be cruel-spoken, but it's selfish.

I can't say I wouldn't try everything in the books (and a few outside books), to save a loved one from leaving my world... I had one friend in a coma, and another dying from cancer at age 25... but after a while, we need to stop fighting, and let God handle things. It should be a celebration -- the end of suffering, and the best reunion anyone could ever have.

Impossibleape said...

Hi Gillian
Great to have you back for a visit.

No need to fear an attack.

I am known as the impossibleape but that is just my show-business name. I'm really a pussycat.

I agree that the Terry S. case was an extremely difficult one and that her going home was not a tragedy for her. I used to get worked up about the issue of right to life in an abstract, intellectual aand religious way. But these days I am more concerned about living a pro-life life in a real and meaningful way.

Your work with developemntally challenged children means you are too and God Bless you for that.

I can see why some people are concerned about precedents being set over who gets what treatments and why but I often think that if we let the human body tell us when it is done (can't breath, can't take sustenance)we should not consider that premature or a termination.

The Schivao case did make me realize that we have to be careful to put our own prejudices into play as we decide if someone would want to live or not. None of us knows what Terry S. would have wanted but just because her life was not like ours or like her own prior to the accident that her life was necessarily not valued by her in whatever capacity to understand and experience was left to her.

It is all very complicated but if you live a loving life of service to all people you will be on God's side in this and every issue.

God bless you Gillian.

Impossibleape said...

sorry I missed an important word in my reply NOT

"The Schivao case did make me realize that we have to be careful (NOT)to put our own prejudices into play as we decide...."